Last week I wrote that time heals all wounds, guess what All wounds are healed by time but only Jesus can heal the Spiritual hurt. Having gone through the loss of my wife Martha, I have found that the loss is at times overwhelming. I am healing very well because I recognized I needed help. I sought out a grief group and opened to my family, admitting how I was feeling. This is essential for anyone to move forward, it is healthy to grieve, but it is not healthy to stay in that grief. I want you to understand Grief comes at you in many ways, the loss of a Job the loss of a boyfriend or girlfriend. Or even just a friend or pet, as well as when a traumatic experience happens, the loss of innocence from one of those events even more so. Now I am not downplaying the horrific ugly events, they are horrible and devastating, also very wrong so do not think for a moment I am taking away from the emotional impact that these events caused. But I want to be absolutely, clear on this if you experienced one of these events you are grieving the loss of your security, your innocence. If you hold on to this grief you will never be able to move forward, talk to someone even if it is just God, tell them what happened admit to yourself that it hurt you. This will be the hardest thing to do, but it is what must happen. I do not pretend to Know what you are going through, not even for a moment will I say that. I believe in the reality that the world is out to destroy you because of Sin the Knowledge of good and evil, the knowledge of evil causes people to do horrific things. That is what the devil himself wanted to accomplish when enticing Eve and Adam to eat that fruit. That is why God had to give his son Jesus to die for us, for the forgiveness of our sins, don’t get me wrong these people who commit horrific events need to pay the price for those sins. If our justice system does not do it God will. This I promise you God will make people like this suffer in ways we cannot imagine. How in the world did I get on this subject, I do not Know, but its important to know Hell was created for this purpose, suffering in Hell is forever. If you let that person, to forever keep you in Grief you have been put in a personal hell that will not end ever. You have the power to defeat that hell by admitting what they did was not your fault, not destiny, and not even what God wanted to happen. But because the knowledge of evil exists, then Evil exists, and some people don’t fight evil. The bible says resist the devil and he must flee, look at the word devil and remove the d. this is where evil comes to light. Therefore, it could say resist evil and it must flee, these people who do horrific things are not fighting evil they are embracing it. Just look at Cain, the lord told him that evil is crouching at his door this is like a tiger waiting to pounce. Cain did not fight evil; he embraced it and paid a great price for that evil. This does not excuse these people for they chose to commit great harm to you, they will pay a great price for what they did to you. This I can promise you, but how do you get through this admit you need help. If your family will not listen and believe you find some person who will, because this is what helped Martha, she told me what happen, and it was the beginning of her healing from that hurt and that scar.
I will talk about this again but not for a while I am moving forward with my life, I really hope you can as well.
Love you all